First of all i need to apologize from being away from my blog for such a long while. I have been dealing with a lot of struggles in my life for the moment that have been taking all the positive energy from my heart & Soul. I felt that i did wanted to let my thoughts out here since this blog is where i feel i can put on my thoughts without getting judge or mistreated in any way.
Life is a gift of god. It is beautiful yet unpredictable. If at times you have enjoyed life to its fullest there will also be times when you are let down. We all go through hard times. No matter however satisfied you are, everyone goes through the most difficult situations of life. Life is not a bed of roses. The difficult situations play the role of thorns in it. There comes a time on life when you are a little blue. One or the other rough situation occurs in your life which leaves you shattered with a heavy heart. You are left hopeless. Most difficult situations of life may be different according to different people. Some may get affected by one and some by the other. These situations that you go through are just a test of your patience. You need to act strong. Therefore, stay calm and let go. Don’t give up.
Making an attempt to do something and getting a negative response comes as a failure in life. It is a state or condition wherein a certain objective is not met. Dealing with a failure is a tough situation. Facing failures and learning from them is the right thing to do but seldom are people able to do that.
Losing in any kind of way is difficult; all from Job, relationship, friendship and future plans is where we have to be less hard on ourselves in order to jump into a new adventure of our lives. If one of them fails; it’s normal and we should see it as a lesson for the future.
We need to surround ourselves with people we love; also make a safe space where you can be totally yourself. This way you’ll be able to become stronger and face life in other way (This takes time). You need to muster a lot of courage and stand for yourself in such cases in order to go through to the situation.
Dealing with a bad situation can be a lot like dealing with grief, and people often go through the same stages: shock and denial, pain and guilt, anger and bargaining, and so on.
You might not be able to fully squelch your emotions, but you can decide to accept what’s happened, regardless of how you feel about it. The sooner you accept it, the sooner you can act from where you are, which is the only way to change how you feel.
Shoes/ Zara, Bag/Inga Xavier/ Dress/ Sandro
Pictures: Mikael Örtenheim